seeing breakups and couples and all that huff puff about BGR, i started to wonder what's the deal about it.. why do ppl go into relationships only to break up.. sometimes it seems pretty silly... but yet, some say, and it is true for some, that for every break up, you learn something from it which helps you for your next relationship..
i never really get the whole get together an break up thing.. probably tts why i'm single.. haha... i cant imagine having to hurt someone..
you know how ppl break up and cry their hearts out for the next few nights and keep their frens awake on the phone, and then the other party, the one who initiated the breakup is sometimes seen holding the hands of another not long after the whole ordeal? i really dont understand how ppl can do all that...
everytime you get into a relationship with someone, a part of you is taken away.. imagine tt you have a white rose.. everytime you get together with someone, you pass tt rose to someone.. everytime you break up, tt person you breakup with tears one petal away.. by the time you meet the person you are to marry, how much of tt rose is left to give it to him/her?
i guess i have this fear of realising that my mr right is someone else and not the guy i'm with at the moment.
better to stay as friends and keep our options open... i mean... you could very well meet someone else better on the road.. right?
no? are you sure? haha...
sometimes i say that too.. no. this guy's for me.. but then i think.. isnt tt what i said about the other guys before this one too?
i'm glad i waited...
i hope he did too....
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires." (Song of Songs 2:7) We shouldn't run into a dating relationship simply because everyone else thinks it's OK. God wants us to wait for the right person, not because he doesn't want us to have a good time, but because he wants us to have the best time.
REMEMBER! God sees the big picture...
as one of my friends pointed out to me, Songs of Songs 2:7 is repeated in the book of Songs of Songs many times.. i guess tt just means its something God really wants to tell us ya?
True love waits.
stargazed @ 12:43 a.m.
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